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Help with my emotional and mental health as a parent

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Looking after your emotional health is important for you and your family. You may feel low, stressed or worried. Talking about how you feel and getting help can make a real difference. This page explains what may help and where to find support.

More about help with my emotional and mental health as a parent

Looking after your emotional wellbeing as a parent or carer means noticing how you feel and how you are coping day to day. It is normal for your feelings and emotions to change during pregnancy and after your baby is born. Some days may feel easier than others.

Many things can affect how you feel. These include changes to your body, lack of sleep, stress or money worries. Feeling unsure about parenting or not having enough support can also make things harder. You might feel low, anxious, tearful, or easily irritated. You may find it hard to sleep or have little energy for everyday tasks. Some parents may not feel close to their baby or may worry that daily life is becoming hard to manage.

Talk to someone you trust if these feelings do not go away or start to get worse. You can also speak to a health professional if they make daily life hard. You are not alone and the right support can help.

Questions and answers

How long can I feel low or worried after having a baby?
It is normal to have good days and difficult days after having a baby. These feelings may last for a few days or weeks. For some people, they can last longer or begin months later. If you are struggling or your feelings are not getting better, speak to a health professional.
Is it normal to feel this way as a parent?
Yes. Many parents feel worried or low at times. Having a baby or caring for children is a big change. Talk to a health professional if these feelings affect your sleep, daily tasks, relationships or care of your child.
What can I do to help myself feel better?
Try simple things like resting when you can, eating regular meals, and talking to someone you trust. Even small steps can help you feel more in control. If things are not improving, reaching out for support can make a big difference.
Can stress or lack of sleep make things worse?
Yes. Stress and lack of sleep can affect how you feel. Caring for a baby or young child can be tiring. Ask someone you trust to help with daily tasks so you can rest.
When should I talk to a health professional?
Talk to your midwife, health visitor or GP if your feelings last longer than weeks. You should also talk to them if the feelings get worse or make daily life hard. Tell them straight away if you feel unable to care for yourself or your child.
What if I feel ashamed or worried about asking for help?
You deserve support, and asking for help is not a failure. Support is there to help you. Speak to someone you trust, your GP, midwife or health visitor.

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