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Supporting my child’s understanding of language

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It can be worrying if your child finds it hard to understand what people say. They may find it hard to follow instructions or make sense of words. Some children need more time to develop these skills. You are not alone. Simple changes at home and the right support can help.

More about supporting my child’s understanding of language

Understanding language means making sense of the words and sentences people use. Your child may find it hard to follow instructions or answer questions. They may only follow part of what you say. Their answers may not match the question. Every child is different. Some need more time and support to build these skills.

Children may find it hard to understand language for different reasons. They may need more time to understand and remember what they hear. They may also find it hard to work out which words are important. Long sentences can be harder to understand. Jokes, slang and sayings may not make sense. Some children use pointing or familiar routines to help them understand.

This can be frustrating for you and your child. Your child may become upset or seem not to listen. They may be finding it hard to understand. You may feel unsure about how to help. You are not alone. Get advice if your child often finds it hard to follow simple instructions.

You can also get advice if they find it hard to understand questions or learn new words. Speak to a health professional, nursery or school if this affects your child's daily life or you are worried. Getting support early can help.

Questions and answers

Why is my child finding it hard to understand language?
Children can find it hard to understand language for different reasons. They may need more time to understand what they hear. Long sentences and new words may be harder to understand. Many children make progress with support.
How can I tell if my child finds language hard to understand?
Your child may find it hard to follow instructions with more than one step. They may ask you to repeat things. They might copy what other people are doing because they are not sure what was said. These signs may mean they need help to understand language.
How can I help my child understand what I say?
Use short sentences and give one instruction at a time. Use gestures or pictures to show what you mean. Give your child time to understand before you expect an answer.
Will my child’s understanding improve as they grow?
Every child is different. Some children improve as they develop. Others may need support for a while. Speak to a health professional, nursery or school if you are worried about your child’s progress.
When should I seek extra support?
Speak to a health professional, nursery or school if your child often finds everyday instructions hard to understand. You can also ask for advice if you are worried about their communication. Getting support early can help.
How can routines and play help my child understand language?
Everyday routines and play can help your child understand language. Repeat familiar activities and name the things you use. Talk about what you are doing. Keeping routines familiar can help your child know what to expect.

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